EVERYTIME CHOICES ARE MADE, OPPORTUNITY COSTS ARE INCURRED
Have you ever experience when you can't make a decision? Especially the decision that you think will affect your career and the whole of your life. I do, in fact I'm really in dillema. After a few months juggling pros and cons, I still cannot decide which one to choose. Getting opinions from my siblings and friends making me to have a really bad headache.
Sometimes I think I have made a wrong decision started from the beginning. Let say, at the first place I want A and I was offered to have B. So, I thought B was the best opportunity for me but at the same time I never released A because my strategy, it was for precaution purposes. But after went through many courses and listening to many opinions and views, I started to think it over and over again until I couldn't choose between A and B. This ia chance a of a lifetime, I might lose both if my decision is thought to be wrong by my Dean.
Eventhough, that I said I still cannot make a choice, but I did made a decision which is a mid decision between two. I thought that was the best decision and I would have more times to think. But I was wrong. For now, I think my decision is wrong the worst decision I ever made! I overlooked certain factors and consequences and it is really preasurred me. I regretted for the decision I had made. I should choose between two and not taking the middle way. My problem will be solved if I choose either or started from the beginning and never listen for what ever people said. Now, I'm quite helpless and not in the full spirit especially when people asking or talking about my undecided choices. Sometimes it is a phobia for when my friends open their mouth asking me A or B. Criticism will be made either I choose A or B.
Taking from my friend's words, life indeed is a survival. Making a decision is part of survival techniques. No matter how hard it is to make a decision, we still have to make a decision, we still have to do it. In my case, sometimes I just hope that fate will take me to whatever path it choose. However, when thinking back, I have power to choose. I have my mind to decide, I have strength to do whatever I choose to do, and I have a lot of things bestowed upon me by the gracious lord. So, why should I become helpless creatures just waiting something to be on them??? I have to decide but for now there is no result for my decision. He3x
3 comments:
Dear Azuriy, to choose A or B is perhaps not a matter as long as you know you can achieve the objective. The decision that we make is from Allah, kehendaknya. Jadi kita kena sentiasa bersedia utk meredhoinya dan senang hati menerimanya, and keep making doa so that the decision would be the best guidance from HIM. Orang yang selalu memikirkan akibat sesuatu keputusan, sampai bila2 pun tak akan menjadi berani. Hadkan menerima / mendengar pendapat orang lain setelah keputusan dibuat. So cheer up. Jangan jadikan perkara ini boleh menjejaskan keseronokan kehidupan kita bersama keluarga yg perlu diteruskan. Wallahua'klam.
Dear Azuriy i agree with the anonymous opinion, semua ini adalah takdir sebenarnya. Keputusan yang telah dibuat hanyalah penyebabnya. Kerana Allah menjadikan setiap sesuatu bersebab. Jadi terimalah ini sebagai takdir. Teruskan usaha, saya tahu "someday you will be somebody". Trust me because i know you and sometimes i think i know you better than i know myself. hahahahah.
Sesuatu benda yang berlaku adalah kehendaknya. Tidak perlu menyalahkan diri sendiri atas pilihan yang dibuat. jgan biarkan pendapt org mempengaruhi keputusan sebab hanya kita yang mengetahui kehendak diri kita. Be yourself
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